Category Archives: Ask Poppy

Ask Poppy Chiffon, the doyenne of ballroom dance etiquette.

Ask Poppy—The Best Advice For A Follow: “Don’t Lead!”

Dear Poppy, I always have to tell the lead how to lead or back lead us into a figure. I try to help but it only makes it worse. Where are all the good leaders? Looking for a Good Lead Dear Looking, The best advice that I can give you, darling, is don’t lead! Even [...]

Ask Poppy—Let Grace Bloom In Your Dancing!

Dear Poppy, I watch some dancers dancing with grace and elegance, but most dancers that I see look like they are trying too hard to look graceful. It looks fake and awkward. How can we look more graceful when dancing whether we lead or follow? Do you have any graceful tips? With Grace

Ask Poppy—You’re Never Too Old To Dance!

Dear Poppy, I have a non-dancing husband and I haven’t danced in years. Am I too old to begin dancing again? Will I have to learn to follow all over again? Old Dancer

Ask Poppy—Build Your Confidence With Dancing Skills!

Dear Poppy, I am afraid to ask someone to dance. I think that they will turn me down, or even laugh at me. How can I build my confidence to ask someone to dance? Fearful of Rejection

Ask Poppy—Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Man To Dance?

Dear Poppy, I am a single woman of good virtue. I was wondering (hoping), is it proper to ask a man to dance or will my image be painted desperate? Lonely But Not Desperate 

Ask Poppy—Are You Feeling Overwelmed About The Summer Showcase?

Dear Poppy, I can’t stop thinking about all the technique, my footwork, my posture, the choreography, …, AHHHHHHHHHHH! I have practiced so much and worked so hard for the opportunity to perform at the Summer Showcase, but I am so nervous! I can’t seem to keep my mind from racing through all my routines over and [...]

Ask Poppy—Keep The Hair Out Of Your Mouth!

Dear Poppy, The Summer Showcase is just weeks away. I am getting a little nervous and want to check with you about how I should wear my hair. I am dancing both ballroom and Latin dances and my hair is shoulder length. What is appropriate for the showcase? Lil Hair Nervous