Poppy,
I can’t feel my partner’s frame. Should I say something or let an instructor advise him? I would be a better dancer if he would just give me better frame.
Unframed
Dear Unframed,
We all have our faults, Honey. Perhaps there is something you could do with your frame to help your partner hold his frame? It depends on the relationship that you have with your partner. Most times, though, it would be better to mention the problem to an instructor during a class so there won’t be any hard feelings. After all, honey, constructive criticism is in the eyes of the criticized. I think it is better to be nice or at least let your instructor be the bad guy. Don’t forget to take a closer look at your own frame and technique. You can’t always blame the other partner, Sweetie.
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